Have to admit I read the article because of the catchy title. I think a few have already mentioned this part — the golden rule does not apply here. The golden rule is for broad application — as in how all of us should treat each other. It is not specific to couples. Read 1 Corinthians 13 for a more thorough description of true love. It is often quoted at weddings. Your comments about love languages are actually pretty good and relevant. Hope this feedback is helpful. Keep writing — the world needs ideas. Thanks.